compare

do you agree that comparing yourself to others is kind of physically abuse??
i absolutely think so.
compare to what you haven't had, compare to what people have achieved and you haven't, compare compare compare!
stop!!!
it's irritating!
does it torture yourself so severely?
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just be grateful for what you had
i once read the book of Pramoedya Anata Toer, and i quoted a line from it:
"Hidup akan lebih banyak memberi jika kau pandai menerima"
it sounds easy to implement but surely difficult in the fact!
We human, are destined to be greedy! We never get enough, it's impossible to be sufficient! we always want more, more and more.
but it's OK. we're human being.
what matters the most is how we control our desire
we cant get everything we want all at once.

try to love yourself, ladies.
try to appreciate yourself  w/ all your limit
love yourself more
more love will come to you.

-akartikapus-